Parkinson's dating in the UK, for a new chapter on your own terms
Diagnosed at 45 or at 75, newly single or single for years: meet UK singles who will not blink at a tremor and will happily plan around your medication times.
A Parkinson's dating site that understands the day-to-day
Parkinson's brings a timetable of its own. Tablets at set hours, better and worse spells through the day, a voice that sometimes comes out softer than you meant, and handwriting that has gone its own way. None of that stops you wanting company, conversation or romance.
On Disability Dates you can say so plainly. Mention your diagnosis in your profile, or wait until you have got to know someone. Either way, this is a site made for dates that take health, energy and access into account, so your Parkinson's becomes part of the plan rather than an obstacle to it.
Dating with Parkinson's
Parkinson's does not keep to a timetable that suits romance. Many people have better and worse spells as each dose of medication takes effect and wears off, and the pattern can shift from week to week. Learn your own rhythm and plan around it: if mornings are good, a late breakfast beats dinner, and if evenings are better there is nothing wrong with a seven o'clock coffee.
A word in advance makes other things easier. If you sometimes freeze for a moment in doorways or crowds, choose somewhere roomy and arrive before the rush. If your voice has grown quieter, sit side by side rather than across a table. And because Parkinson's can make a face show less than you feel, a quick “I'm having a lovely time, even if my face doesn't say so” clears that up.
Dates that fit around Parkinson's
Time it well
Pick the part of the day when your medication is working best, and keep your next dose with you. Nobody needs an explanation for a quick tablet with a glass of water.
Somewhere you can be heard
If your voice has become quieter, a calm café beats a busy pub. Sitting side by side at a corner table can help too.
Easy to get to
Close to home or on a simple route, with seats, a handrail on any steps, and no long walk from the car park or bus stop.
Telling a date you have Parkinson's
If you were diagnosed recently, you may still be getting used to the word yourself. That is a reason to date slowly, not a reason to stop. Some people put it in their profile straight away; others mention it once a conversation has some warmth to it. Both are fine. What matters is that it comes up before it shapes the date, say if a tremor makes you want to skip the soup.
Young-onset Parkinson's brings its own questions about work, children and the years ahead, and you do not have to answer them on a first date. Something like “I have Parkinson's, it's well managed at the moment, and I'd rather hear about you” is honest and leaves the rest for later.
Dating again later in life with Parkinson's
Many people are diagnosed in their fifties, sixties or later, sometimes just as life was settling into a new pattern after children, work or a partner. Dating again can feel like a lot to take on at the same time. Start gently: a profile, a few messages, a phone or video call when you feel like it.
Parkinson's UK has a helpline and local groups across the country, if you would like to talk to others who have been through the same thing.
- Use a recent photo you like, taken by a friend if you prefer
- Write about what you enjoy now, not only what you used to do
- Voice typing makes messages easier if your hands are shaky
- Say whether you are after romance, company or both
- Never send money to someone you have not met, whatever the reason
Dating someone with Parkinson's
If the person you are seeing has Parkinson's, follow their lead on how much to talk about it. Ask what helps instead of guessing, and resist the urge to take over at the till or finish a job they are halfway through; slower is not the same as unable. A softer voice and a stiller face are symptoms, not signs of boredom, so sit close and pick a quiet room.
Parkinson's is a long-term condition that changes over the years, so honest talk about the future will come. It does not need to come on the second date. For now, enjoy the person in front of you, plan around their good hours, and treat a rearranged evening as no big deal.
Members in their forties and beyond
Real UK members on Disability Dates. A free profile shows you more.
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ID verified Dizzigoth, 65
Stoke-on-trent
Basically, I'm a music-loving Elder Goth. Music is soooo important to me. I'm happiest at a live gig. I love to hop on a train with my little chariot & visit other cities or even countries (not managed this for quite a few years) I would love someone special in my life again but even a good music-loving friend would be great. I can't handle racism, intolerance of any kind. I need an intelligent man to get me to use my brain more than I currently do, my illnesses definitely don't help, I have rheumatoid arthritis, fibromyalgia, scolio/kyphosis, the worst pain is in my lower back where I have spinal stenosis & the bottom looks like a pile of Jenga after it's tumbled. My knees won't completely straighten either due to arthritis but I hide them with flowing goth skirts. I can still dance after a few glasses of anaesthetic. My pain relief is totally inadequate. I think that's enough for now?
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ID verified Delbert007, 57
Ashford
I enjoy holidays, driving around the country, meeting people, eating out.chilling on the sofa with some good company and a great film and generally having a good time.
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Tracie, 61
Portsmouth
I love staycations and little breaks away from love my dog puzzles to make my brain work going for meals drinks and shows
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Grace, 50
Kent
I would like to meet a man who is sincere, responsible, understanding and kind.
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Pea711, 49
Turriff
I'm a 49-year-old man, standing at 5'10", seeking a relationship with a woman who shares my interests in going out and enjoying good music and movies. I enjoy the occasional drink. If you're looking for someone genuine, let's connect and see where it leads.
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Pauliejohn5, 54
Dymchurch
I enjoy travelling reading and good company just want to find someone normal ish to enjoy life with
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Familyman, 57
Rubery
Playing with my twin boys and doing DIY and gardening on my house.
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Countrygal, 66
Reading
Love the closeness of being with that special person.. whether it be chilling with a film or out and about exploring places.. picnics by the river or people watching at a quaint coffee house…honesty is best no matter what it may be ….
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Pollyj70, 55
Rugeley
Genuine lady who has just overcome cancer, down to earth! Animal lover, love a good live music gig, travelling and days out
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Able2Date, 67
Church Stretton
Lots of things get me excited such new experiences, travel, Crafting, Pattern Recognition Photography, the natural outdoor countryside as well as sharing a bag of chips at the sea side. The sensation of a fresh, crisp breeze upon my face is one experience I would like to share with a special lady x
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Shandra, 51
Cardiff
If you’re looking for a dynamic partner who can light up your world, look no further! I’m not just about deep conversations; I’m all for spontaneous adventures and discovering what life has to offer. I'm hard of hearing, but I promise, I listen with my heart. Let’s see where this journey takes us—are you in for the ride?
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Happylady, 48
Chatham
I am friendly. I come from Slovakia. My English level is not very good, if you don't mind I would be great.
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Parkinson's dating questions
Is there a Parkinson's dating site in the UK?
Yes. Singles with Parkinson's, and with many other conditions, are welcome on Disability Dates from right across the UK. A profile costs nothing to set up.
Should I mention Parkinson's in my profile?
That is your choice. A short line can save explaining later, but you can just as well wait until you have chatted for a while.
What if my tremor is worse on the day?
Mention it if you like, or just carry on. Anyone worth a second date will be far more interested in the conversation.
I am in my seventies. Am I too old for online dating?
Not at all. Plenty of people meet partners later in life, and you can take things as slowly as you like here.
I was only diagnosed recently. Is it too soon to date?
Not if you feel like meeting people. Some people give themselves a few months to settle into treatment first; others carry on as before. Start with messages and go at your own speed.
What if my medication wears off during a date?
Plan the date for your better hours, carry your next dose, and feel free to call it a night when you need to. Anyone worth seeing again will understand.
Is it for young-onset Parkinson's too?
Yes. Whatever age you were diagnosed, you are welcome.