Dating for blind and visually impaired people across the UK
Totally blind, partially sighted or losing your sight bit by bit: meet UK singles who care more about how you sound in a message than how you look in a photo.
Online dating when the photos are not the point
Most dating apps are built around swiping on faces, which is a strange way to meet someone if you cannot see them. Disability Dates puts more weight on what people write: who they are, what they enjoy, what a good Saturday looks like. That suits blind and visually impaired daters, and it suits anyone tired of choosing a partner from a thumbnail.
The basics are there for everyone, sighted or not. Use the accessibility button on these pages to make the text bigger or switch to high contrast, and take your time over every message.
Blind, partially sighted or losing sight
Blind since birth
You have never relied on sight, and your sense of a person comes from voice, humour and conversation. That is a fine way to choose a partner.
Partially sighted
Some useful vision, plenty of workarounds, and days when the light or the print size makes all the difference.
Losing your sight
Macular degeneration, glaucoma, diabetic eye disease or something rarer. Dating while you adjust can feel daunting, so go at whatever speed feels right.
Dating for blind people: making your phone do the work
Most blind and partially sighted people already carry the tools they need. The screen reader built into your phone, VoiceOver on an iPhone or TalkBack on Android, can read profiles and messages aloud, and voice typing lets you reply without the keyboard. If you have some sight, zoom and your phone's bold or large text settings make long messages far easier going.
Take your time with replies; nobody here expects instant answers. If any part of the site is awkward with your screen reader or magnifier, tell the support team which page and what happened. It helps them fix it, and it helps the next person too.
A profile that works when photos do not
Your words carry more weight here, so give them some care. Describe your voice, your laugh, the things you do on a Sunday. Mention your guide dog by name; dogs are a famously good conversation starter.
For photos, ask a friend or family member you trust to help choose a couple that look like you. And it is perfectly fair to ask a match to describe their own pictures.
- Write how you would introduce yourself out loud
- Say what you enjoy doing, not just what you like
- Let someone you trust help pick your photos
- Mention your sight in whatever detail feels right
- Ask matches to describe their photos if you would like to know
Real members from around the country
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ID verified nikki, 60
Coventry
i love the great outdoors enjoy exploring different places would love some company
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Royhanch, 61
Wolverhampton
Hey there! I’m a 6ft 1in gent from Wolverhampton who’s ready to find that special someone. Cooking up a storm in the kitchen and enjoying a good film are some of my favourite pastimes. Being a wheelchair user hasn’t slowed me down, and I’m always up for an adventure. Let’s grab a drink and see where the conversation takes us!
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Niknok, 37
Eastbourne
I’m a bit of a nerd, I like lord of The rings & the hobbit films. I enjoy long talks & meeting each other, being challenged intellectually. I love hanging out with my family & best friends. I love bantering each other.. being kind & sweet is always a good thing too
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IntriguingCanary676, 38
Maidstone
I love animals, theatre, music and helping others.
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RubyWriterB699D7, 59
Tunbridge Wells
Hey there! I'm a friendly 59-year-old who enjoys cooking and exploring the outdoors. I have a great sense of humour, and I'm all about building meaningful connections, whether it’s friendships or something more. If you love pets and music, we might just be the perfect match for some fun adventures together!
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Caspian21, 65
Stoke-on-trent
At 62, I believe life is too short not to enjoy every moment. With a charming sense of adventure and a love for good music and films, I’m here looking for a female companion who’s as eager to explore as I am. Whether it’s whipping up a delicious meal together or sharing stories over a drink, I promise to bring a bit of fun and flair into our lives. So, if you fancy a laugh and a new adventure, let’s see where this goes!
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Adele, 34
Ely
cats friendS and family talkig 2 friends and talking my friends dog out
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langy1978, 48
Stourbridge
Hey there, I’m a 48-year-old gentleman with a love for adventure and a heart full of stories. Standing at 5ft 7in and sporting a couple of tattoos, I enjoy a night out, indulging in great food and even better company. If you’re someone who’s ready to explore life’s pleasures, be it a romantic dinner or a spontaneous trip, let’s see where this journey takes us. Are you up for some fun?
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Stacer88, 37
Walsall
I like the movies and listening to music I like to laugh and cook for guests
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FunnyDreamer42d79d, 38
Snodland
having fun and doing new things. I like to go new places and try new things .I also enjoy listening to music
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Shandra, 51
Cardiff
If you’re looking for a dynamic partner who can light up your world, look no further! I’m not just about deep conversations; I’m all for spontaneous adventures and discovering what life has to offer. I'm hard of hearing, but I promise, I listen with my heart. Let’s see where this journey takes us—are you in for the ride?
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Familyman, 57
Rubery
Playing with my twin boys and doing DIY and gardening on my house.
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First dates that do not depend on looking
Choose somewhere you know, or can find your way to easily, and pick a time when it will not be packed. A pub quiz, a tasting menu, a concert or a long walk with the dog all make a date about conversation, taste and sound rather than sights.
If your date offers to guide you, say how you like it done, or say no thanks. People mean well, and they are usually happy to be told. RNIB has practical advice on getting about and on making phones and computers easier to use if you want a hand with the tech.
How to date a blind or partially sighted person
Say who you are when you arrive, even after weeks of messages; a voice takes a moment to place in a busy room. If they would like guiding, offer your arm and let them hold just above your elbow, then walk half a step ahead and mention steps and kerbs as you reach them. Never grab their arm or their cane, and leave a working guide dog to do its job, however much you want to say hello.
At the table, ask whether they would like the menu read out rather than doing it unasked, and say when you are popping to the bar so they are not left talking to an empty chair. Everyday phrases like “see you later” are fine; blind people use them too. Beyond that it is like any date: listen, be yourself, and make them laugh.
Dating and relationships for blind and visually impaired people
As things get serious, the practical side settles into a rhythm: who drives, who reads the post, how you share the cooking. Work it out together rather than letting the sighted partner quietly take over. Independence matters, and losing it by accident breeds resentment on both sides.
If your sight is changing, talk about it early and honestly. A partner who knows what may be coming can help you plan, and you will both feel more secure. If you want to talk things over with someone outside the relationship, RNIB's helpline is there for that too.
Blind and visually impaired dating questions
Are there dating sites for blind people in the UK?
Disability Dates is one. It is a UK dating site for disabled singles, including blind and partially sighted people, and it is free to join. Profiles lean on what people write, which helps when photos are not much use to you.
Do I need to put photos on my profile?
They help other members feel they know who they are talking to, so it is worth adding one or two. Ask someone you trust to help choose them if you like.
Should I mention my guide dog?
Yes, if you want to. It tells people something real about your life, and a dog is an easy thing to start a conversation about.
Is it for people with partial sight too?
Yes. Anyone with sight loss is welcome, from partial sight to total blindness, whether you were born with it or it came later.
Is there a dating app for blind people?
Disability Dates runs in your phone's browser, so there is nothing to install, and your phone's own screen reader and zoom settings carry on working as usual.
How should I guide a blind date?
Offer your arm rather than taking theirs, and let them hold just above your elbow. Walk half a step ahead, mention steps and kerbs as you reach them, and never grab their cane or distract their guide dog.
What is a good first date if I am blind?
Somewhere familiar or easy to reach, at a quieter time. Food, music, a quiz or a walk keep the focus on conversation. Arrange your own way home, and tell a friend where you are going.
Dating advice for other conditions
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