Disabled dating in the UK, built around real life
Wheelchair users, Deaf and blind singles, autistic adults, people living with MS, epilepsy or a learning disability: this is where you meet someone whose days look a bit like yours.
A dating site for disabled people, made for the UK
Most dating apps were designed by people who never have to think about steps, hearing loops or how long they can stand at a bar. Disability Dates starts from the other end. It is a disabled dating site for adults across England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland, and everything on it treats access as part of planning a date, not a problem to apologise for.
That changes the small things. Put a Blue Badge, a guide dog, BSL or a support worker in your profile and it reads as useful information rather than a confession. Suggest a café because you know its loo is accessible. Say a weekday afternoon suits you better than a Friday night, and the person reading it will understand why.
Some members are dating for the very first time. Others are coming back after a divorce, a bereavement or a diagnosis that rearranged everything. Many are in their forties, fifties and sixties, and plenty want something steady: a partner, a companion, someone to ring at the end of the day.
Meet some of our UK members
Real people from across the UK. Join free to see more of them and say hello.
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ID verified Bebob, 51
Glasgow
I’m 51 years old, short, but regularly get told I look young for my age (the photos are a couple of years, and a few pounds out of date, but they are still me). I guess in some ways, I am still young at heart. I grew up in the 90s and have spent a lot of time in clubs and partying and that is no longer my thing. Looking for someone who wants to get to know me like I want to get to know them. I write; been working on a fantasy book for a couple of years. I like walks and the outdoors, pubs and restaurants, movies, art, theatre, sport, and being true to myself. Open to ideas and suggestions for things to do. I have bipolar disorder and have not been working for a year, so I can’t treat you in the style to which you might have become accustomed! But I’m honest, and romantic and looking for someone to cuddle. See you down the line.
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Racheal94, 32
Leigh-on-sea
What makes me happiest is spending time with my family and friends, having a good laugh and making people smile. I love comedy, especially Ricky Gervais and After Life, and I enjoy telling jokes and having a bit of banter. I also like going out for lunch, enjoying a nice cup of tea and spending quality time with people I care about. I’m happiest when I can be myself, have a laugh and enjoy the little things in life. I’d love to meet someone I can share laughs, good times and new experiences with.
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Adele, 34
Ely
cats friendS and family talkig 2 friends and talking my friends dog out
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Jay847, 53
Cannock
Anything as I'm a glass half full kind of bloke what makes you happy
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Caspian21, 65
Stoke-on-trent
At 62, I believe life is too short not to enjoy every moment. With a charming sense of adventure and a love for good music and films, I’m here looking for a female companion who’s as eager to explore as I am. Whether it’s whipping up a delicious meal together or sharing stories over a drink, I promise to bring a bit of fun and flair into our lives. So, if you fancy a laugh and a new adventure, let’s see where this goes!
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Shandra, 51
Cardiff
If you’re looking for a dynamic partner who can light up your world, look no further! I’m not just about deep conversations; I’m all for spontaneous adventures and discovering what life has to offer. I'm hard of hearing, but I promise, I listen with my heart. Let’s see where this journey takes us—are you in for the ride?
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Royhanch, 61
Wolverhampton
Hey there! I’m a 6ft 1in gent from Wolverhampton who’s ready to find that special someone. Cooking up a storm in the kitchen and enjoying a good film are some of my favourite pastimes. Being a wheelchair user hasn’t slowed me down, and I’m always up for an adventure. Let’s grab a drink and see where the conversation takes us!
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Stacer88, 37
Walsall
I like the movies and listening to music I like to laugh and cook for guests
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NaanaLlama, 35
Halifax
I live in the UK. I love dogs, gaming, and spending time with my friends. I feel very isolated and lonely at the moment and would love to talk to somebody about anything and everything. I am an easy-going, lucky girl.
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Niknok, 37
Eastbourne
I’m a bit of a nerd, I like lord of The rings & the hobbit films. I enjoy long talks & meeting each other, being challenged intellectually. I love hanging out with my family & best friends. I love bantering each other.. being kind & sweet is always a good thing too
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FunnyDreamer42d79d, 38
Snodland
having fun and doing new things. I like to go new places and try new things .I also enjoy listening to music
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Pea711, 49
Turriff
I'm a 49-year-old man, standing at 5'10", seeking a relationship with a woman who shares my interests in going out and enjoying good music and movies. I enjoy the occasional drink. If you're looking for someone genuine, let's connect and see where it leads.
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Start with the people who live like you
Each condition comes with its own dating questions. Pick the one closest to yours for practical advice written with it in mind.
Wheelchair users
Step-free venues, transfers and taxis, and dates with people who already plan that way.
Wheelchair datingAmputees
Limb loss, prosthetics and when to bring it up, with people who have lived it.
Amputee datingDeaf and hard of hearing
Sign, lip-read or type: meet people who pick a quiet, well-lit table without being asked.
Deaf datingBlind and visually impaired
Guide dogs, screen readers and profiles that say more than a photo ever could.
Blind datingAutistic and neurodivergent
Plain talk, clear plans and no pressure to guess what someone really meant.
Autistic datingLearning disabilities
Dating at a steady pace, with clear safety advice and room for the people who support you.
Learning disability datingCerebral palsy
Speech, movement and energy that change from day to day, met with patience instead of questions.
Cerebral palsy datingEpilepsy
Seizure plans, no driving licence and early nights: find someone who takes it in their stride.
Epilepsy datingMS and chronic illness
Flare-ups, fatigue and changed plans, with people who know a rain check is not a brush-off.
Chronic illness datingParkinson's
Tremor, medication times and dating again later in life, at a pace that suits you.
Parkinson's datingFrom free profile to first date
Join free
Create your profile at no cost and add photos whenever you are ready.
Say what matters
Your interests, what you are looking for, and any access needs you would like a match to know about.
Get daily matches
Each day you are shown members chosen for things like age, where they live and the kind of relationship they want.
Say hello
Free members can send a few messages a day and reply to any message from a VIP member.
Know who you are talking to
Meeting someone online means trusting a stranger, and that can feel like a bigger step when you rely on other people for lifts, care or getting home. So the identity checks here cost nothing, and anyone can use them.
Use them, look for them on other people's profiles, and keep the usual common sense close: a video call before you meet, somewhere public you know you can get into, and a friend who knows where you are.
- Free ID verification, with a badge on your profile once you are checked
- A live video check with a moderator, with no documents needed
- Profile validation by our team, if you would rather not share ID
- Never send money or bank details, however good the story sounds
Love, company or a good chat: you decide what you are here for
Free to join, and nobody will hurry you.
Dating again in your 40s, 50s and beyond
If you have not dated since before smartphones, starting again online can sound daunting. It needn't be. There are no selfies to post and no one expects a reply within the hour. Write a few lines about yourself, add a recent photo, and read the profiles of people near you in your own time.
You will not be the only one starting over. People come back to dating after a marriage ends, after losing a partner, or after a stroke, an injury or a diagnosis changes their plans. Most are not looking for perfect. They want kind, reliable and good company, and that is far easier to find when nobody needs your disability explained to them.
Disabled dating near you
From Cornwall to the Highlands, find disabled singles in your part of the country.
Questions people ask before joining
Is Disability Dates free?
Yes, joining is free. A free account lets you build a full profile, browse members, get daily match suggestions, send a limited number of messages each day and reply to messages from VIP members. VIP membership adds more, and it is entirely optional.
Is there a disabled dating app?
Disability Dates works in the browser on any phone, tablet or computer, and you can add it to your phone's home screen so it opens like an app.
Do I have to say what my disability is?
No. Say as much or as little as suits you, whenever it suits you. Some members put it in the first line of their profile; others mention it after a few messages. Either is fine.
Can I use it if I have a learning disability?
Yes. Take your time, ask someone you trust to help you set up your profile if that would help, and talk to them before you meet anyone. Never give anybody money, passwords or bank details.
How do I know people are who they say they are?
Every member can verify their ID for free, do a short live video check with a moderator, or ask our team to validate their profile. Look for the verified badge, and have a video call before you meet.
Is Disability Dates for UK singles?
Yes. It is built for disabled singles in the UK, with area guides covering England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland.
Your next good conversation could start today
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